Should Money Come up in the Issue of Intimacy?

From Carlo:

As a successful, self respecting man. I honestly believe that money has no place coming up in the issue of intimacy between men & women. In my view that’s prostitution. What’s your take on this?

Loretta Foxx: 

My answer would be No, its not prostitution! 

Perhaps if it was a “booty call” or in the “getting to know each other phase” maybe it would be a little premature to discuss finances. There may be a sprinkle of a hidden agenda. However, you used the word “intimacy” so I will have to say NO, its not prostitution. Now if you literally mean intimacy “in the love making sense” that’s just plain bad timing!

Nonetheless, I’m sure you mean “Intimacy” as in being involved, a relationship, hoping to one day lead to love and marriage. Right?  In that case, it’s very natural for those  kinds of discussions to come up. In fact it SHOULD take place! Men often want to know if they “commit”, that they will ALWAYS be sexually taken care of by their mate. Opposed to women, of course we want to be sexually satisfied, but to be financially secured supersedes that (if you don’t believe me, ask the ladies that stay in relations when their husbands have openly strayed).

The reason being is, women innately need to feel that they have the biggest bear in the forest…the leader, the protector, a provider! ! We ladies need this for many  reasons. What if she chooses or is forced to take time off to have a baby? What if she chooses to stay home to raise a family? What what if she is laid off, or just want to focus on being perfect for you?

She needs to feel comfy, that it can work smoothly. Unfortunately, your pocket contributes to that sense of security. However, don’t get mad, get smart!  Take this opportunity in the conversation to find out about her. Ask about previous marital debt, or if she paid her taxes, does she have any bad checks out there (great reminder- Dirk Nowitzki’s gal,) ask about what could potentially haunt both of you down the road.

Don’t run from the conversation.

Find out her assets or baggage! Because there are some “five star chicks” out there that may be asking about your pocket before revealing and certainly before investing her money into you!!!

Much Love,

Loretta Foxx,

Your Personal Ultimate Girlfriend

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